So I received a few dissenting emails about my post regarding the debate I had with Larry, and I figured I’d address some of the (extreme) fallacies that they presented me. I like numbers right now, so I’ll do it as a list.
1. Sex isn’t bad. I have no problem with sex. I fucking love sex. But my life does not revolve around it. And if somebody’s life does revolve around it, there’s nothing wrong with that. It just doesn’t work for me, personally. My only problem with sex is when it is performed unsafely (i.e. without full disclosure on both/all party’s health history) or non-consensually. Here’s the deal: My main problem was with Larry’s statement that obsession with cock is the “gay reality.” It’s not. In fact, there’s no one single “gay reality.”
2. I do not intend to “talk down” to people. I have no reason to talk down to anyone. If my tone seems condescending, that’s not my problem. Virtual communication is already flawed in that it does not allow for the full realization of tone/body language/sarcasm, so people shouldn’t assume that I talk down to people in general. I mean, other than literally because I’m just so dang tall.
3. To the people who think that it’s “unfair” of me to put our argument on my blog, I have this to say: Tough titty. The rule of the internet is that if you don’t want it seen by people, you shouldn’t have put it on the internet in the first place.
4. Opinions CAN BE WRONG. I know that Larry was simply presenting his opinion, but that doesn’t mean that it’s correct. If a person is of the opinion that all black people are lazy, that’s his/her opinion, but it’s still fucking wrong. On several levels.
5. Finally, go check out this very relevant song that my friend recommended to me. He said it reminds him of me, but I have no idea why, to be honest.
The line about being delgada in Prada is just so very…connotative. Enjoy!
